Sitting in my comfortable chair with a nice cup of coffee in my hand, I can’t help but wonder, “What lies around the corner?”
Curiosity cannot help but push us towards this unknown. It may be a quick look or it may be the beginning of a long, new adventure… The one thing I am sure of, we cannot help but take a look. Humans, by nature, are curious creatures, and the desire to learn and obtain wisdom in life lies deep within everyone’s heart.
This desire to learn is a gift children have in abundance. Differences (be it culture, language, food, religion, etc) can be eerie for the young; frightening if not so compelling. There are times when children cannot help but stare at someone, often with their mouths agape, as they try to register what it is they are now experiencing.
Often, a turn towards their parents to understand how they should proceed follows.
In my experiences, parents let children explore differences with “the mind of a child”, open and questioning. When it comes to something as simple as someone, all it takes is a glint in the eye, a break of a smile, warm laughter, or something similarly subtle to cross all boundaries and cultures. We are one.
The ability of children to focus on the newness that triggers questions is what fascinates. A child’s mind pursues answers to understand how “differences” fits into their world, and they grow.
Not a bad lesson to learn from little ones: never cease expanding the mind, for if we do not grow with all the changes the world brings every day, we’ll be lost.
It is crazy to think of all the opportunities that lie around in today’s world. Places to explore right around the corner include a neighbor, friends, or a new restaurant with an exotic menu, offering a chance to dive into a new world.
What is most beautiful to see are parents who push their children forward with curiosity instead of pulling them back with fear.
“Pushing forward with curiosity instead of pulling back with fear”
It was this last sentence that caught my attention while staying in a small home on top of the Hallelujah Mountains in Hunan province, China. Huddled around a small stove with a couple in their mid-30s from Beijing, they told me they grew up restricted by fear, in part due to the chaos of China in the 60s and 70s that lingered in the minds of the people through the 80s.
The couple contrasted those fears of the past with what has replaced them in today’s society: healthy curiosity. Civilizations thrive when people push forward with confidence rather than pulling back in fear. Chasing after the answer, pursuing curiosity, can lead to places that have never been envisioned.
How we found ourselves together in this small cabin was a result of curiosity. As the family whose house we were staying at were members of the Tu-Jia minority (土家族), the couple from Beijing enjoyed Tujia food very much, and wanted to experience it on the mountain, while I came for the photography…a perfect match.
As our conversation ended, the lady from Beijing asked me to join her, along with the old couple, to go out back to their smokehouse. There, I witnessed a 30-minute discussion over what piece of smoked meat would be used for our meal.
It was amid questions, stories, and more questions, interspersed with laughter, that “the best piece of meat” was found, and the preparation of a traditional Tu-Jia meal was confirmed. We would have 土家腊肉 (Tujia Bacon with Wild Vegetables).
Wild vegetables, tofu, rice and A LOT of Hunan spices made for a great meal. Standard for all such meals is a glass of their homemade ‘moonshine’ which after a long day of hiking went down smoothly.
The experience of Hunan and Hallelujah Mountain was unforgettable. The photography ended up being a bit of a disappointment, as the weather did not cooperate on top of the mountain… after one clear night, the cold rolled in along with a light rain, which meant a bland, grey fog blanketed the area.
I had hoped for heavy rain, followed by brief weather breaks, which would have provided perfect conditions to capture the rare “peaks above a sea of clouds” scene, but instead, Lady Fate gave me another great reason to return and search for that elusive shot.
Getting the urge to explore, to let the curiosity get the best of us, is a good thing. Whether it is taking a small trip or listening to a story from someone next door, it contains wisdom that people would normally have to travel around the globe to collect.
Some of the best memories I have are of growing up and learning about things: wheat, cattle, sports, and nature from people around my hometown. Yet, I also learned about China, the Middle East, and the world from those very same people…as I was curious and they were eager to tell me a story and share with me the mystery.
As an American, it excites me to see such diversity around the world and in our communities. Opportunities right next door are just waiting to be tapped for the wealth of experience and wisdom to be shared.
It impresses me to no end how easy it can be to invite yourself into a new culture, a new life just by following your curiosity and allowing yourself to be swept away into mystery.
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